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Abounding in Him Blog

You BELONG. And I'll Tell You Why...

Belonging Identity Purpose

You BELONG.  And I'll Tell You Why...

Have you ever wondered… Where do I fit in?  I have, NUMEROUS times.  In fact, I spent most of my life trying to be someone that I’m not, because I just wanted to FIT in.  I drank. I partied. I compromised my values, and even abandoned my faith, all because I wanted so badly to fit in. Because FITTING IN=BELONGING…right? EH! WRONG. Several years ago, I had a harsh reality check.  You could say, I had an IDENTITY crisis.  In a sense, I felt like I was LOSING everything.  Or rather, I realized, that I never really HAD anything to...

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Two Age-Old Lies You Need to Break Agreement with Now

Two Age-Old Lies You Need to Break Agreement with Now

Can I tell you something I’ve never told ANYONE? I’m serious.  You are the first to hear this.  And even right now, it’s hard for me to write about. In my previous posts, I told you about how there was a time when I realized I didn’t LOVE myself.  Well, there was also a time when I OPPOSITE of LOVED myself.  I’m not even going to write the word out, because it’s such a terrible word that I now consider it a swear word. But you know what it is.  It’s a four-letter word that starts with an H and...

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How Three Little Words Can Change EVERYTHING

How Three Little Words Can Change EVERYTHING

“God, help me!  I need you!”  It was all I could manage to pray as I laid there on the couch, in fetal position just sobbing.  I couldn’t eat.  I couldn’t think.  I could barely even dress myself, as deciding on what to wear required way too much decision-making.  I couldn’t focus on any single task long enough to complete it, including doing my hair or make-up, or even making breakfast.  My short-term memory was, well, a distant memory.  I would wander around my apartment aimlessly because every time I walked into a room I just could not recall, if...

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It's Time to Ditch this Widely-Accepted Paradigm for the Truth

It's Time to Ditch this Widely-Accepted Paradigm for the Truth

That awkward moment… when you realize, you are being STARED at. Yea, it happened to me the other day.  I was in line at the grocery store, scanning the refreshing drink options to the left of the checkout line, when it HAPPENED. I was deep in thought, as I twirled my ponytail, and contemplated if I should indulge in some coconut water, or a water spritzer.  “Naaa, I’m good.”  I decided. And turning my attention back to the checkout area, our eyes locked.  It was the grocery bagger at checkout station #1.  He was smiling at me and didn’t seem...

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The Biggest Revelation We All Need to Walk in Christ

The Biggest Revelation We All Need to Walk in Christ

  Heart pounding, mind racing…I made my way toward the altar.  My mind tried to talk me out of it, but compelled by the Holy Spirit, my body just WENT. It was one of those AWKWARD altar calls.  Not the ones where like half the congregation comes forward, so you don’t feel so alone.  NO, the ones where like NO ONE comes forward for the first minute or two, THEN a few people start to trickle forward, and the entire congregation remains seated.  And you are ONE of those few people.  And you can’t help but feel EVERY eyeball on...

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